I am currently obsessed with…

…two things, actually.

1. Finding an affordable place to have my wedding next year.
2. The Floor! && when I say the floor, I’m not talking about my house floors – there is a gameshow hosted by Rob Lowe that I’m loving.

I have been googling a lot lately trying to find something I like that I can afford. I tell Boyfriend all the time that I’m a little on the bougie side && looking at these places I’m starting to see just how bougie I really am. I have found a couple I really like but I can’t afford to just blow nearly $6,000 on a venue for one night. Especially when I can use that money to do better things – you know, like fix my house. (We are working on that slowly.)

I have thought about saying to heck with it && eloping. Find me a judge, courthouse, take a couple people && just be done with it. But at the same time, I know there are people who actually want to be there. So, I think, how mad will people be if I don’t invite everyone who has shown interest in it – will they get over it? Then I wonder also, how much do I really care? Some of the people who has shown interest in going I barely see. Or never see. I think they are after free booze, which I will not be having. I don’t drink, so why have it? 

I’ve also been giving thought to having a very small wedding – get like a small chapel for $100 – then get a venue just to party! Invite the masses to the party to celebrate us getting married rather than being at the wedding itself. Because then I could just do a judge marriage and then have everyone go to the party afterwards.

Weddings are expensive. Where if I can just find a small chapel somewhere for a couple hundred dollars, I could spend a little bit on a venue (I found one for $500) – serve some finger foods, or pizza, or something. Soda’s && teas.

I have a lot to think about. Boyfriend mentioned just going to Vegas, but honestly, googling that – it’s not really that much cheaper to go there. Plus, you have to add in the money to drive there.

THE FLOOR! I’m telling you what! I had seen a preview of it on Facebook && thought I would give it a shot, why not? Right? I love gameshows. I wasn’t sure, just by previews, if I’d like it. So I waited for a day the Boyfriend && I were both off and I turned it on (I watch it using Hulu). && boy, let me tell you! I was hooked from episode one. The only thing I’m not liking is the fact I have to wait weeks to watch it. I’m up to date with it and now I have to wait until next Wednesday to watch the fourth episode.